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Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
00:32:26
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Masturbation? Bills gay? Dammit, who let the 8th graders in again! Geez, you guys are sooooo cool, you really got us this time! I guess being gay and/or masturbating really is worse than raping babies! Wow. Hooray for people like you. If your over 15, I really, really feel bad for you. Did you get your ass kicked on a regular basis in high school? Does your daddy not love you? WAYYYYYY to much time on your hands. Shouldn't you be out in service or something? Go volunteer at a suicide hotline or a rape crisis center, perhaps a domestic violence house. Oh, wait, I forgot, witnesses just do enough by handing out literature. We know who you are, & your quotes here will be reported to the elders! Then you'll really have some time on your hands!

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
05:16:02
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It was a privilege to be among the 125 on the 27th. I had a chance to meet many wonderful people on that day - not only the courageous survivors of abuse but also those who have sacrificed so much to lend their support. I applaud the efforts and mission statement of SilentLambs and hope that one day the Society will implement the much-needed changes it recommends. BB BbsStuff@aol. com

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
05:20:23
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I am happy to know that people are speaking out against a religion that is so anti-Christian in their actions. I wish I were brave enough to add my name. But here is another sad example of Witness behavior. My mother and I had studied with the witnesses for 9 years. In 1977 I was invited along on a trip to the skate rink with a group of supervised teens. One of the church elder's son was there. Even though I knew I shouldn't, I went off with him and two other girls and boys. I was naive and trusted him to do good. I was wrong-raped-terrified of letting anyone know. I found out I was pregnant,he was disfellowshipped. His best friend, also a witness offered to marry me,(looking back,it was probably the church elder's idea),which I did. For the brief time I stayed married to him, I was continually reminded of my failure to call out,(I had been knocked out),during the rape and told that I was at fault. He was also very abusive. Not only that, but despite their claims of honesty, the relationship with him, other members and his grandparents was fraught with lies. I have kept this largely a secret for many years. My son is wonderful and I am so glad we left when we did. I can't even begin to go into the psychological harm he suffered when they tried to pull him back in to the religion 9 years later when I agreed to let him see his Witness grandparents on the condition that they not bring him to see his,(step), father until it was settled in court,(he had tried to suffocate my son with a pillow when he was 9 months old because he made too much noise when he was trying to sleep-that's when I left), and they lied to me about not giving him to his,(step), father too. I am so glad to be away from those people and their religion. I would like to excuse it with every group has some bad people in it but I can't. In every congregation and Kingdom Hall, I saw similar situations evolving or being hidden and I just can't justify them. My neighbors have been studying for almost a year now and I'd love to point out some of the websites I have found,so that they may know there are two sides to this, but they are too involved to see. Thank you-I feel better for being able to share this. I love your web site, I feel as though I am no longer alone :)

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
06:50:55
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Still waiting to see all the press coverage other than backwoods newspapers. Show me some CNN, some NBC, ABC, FOX something for God's sake. If this stinking march was so big show me some press!

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
06:58:55
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You are doing a vital work. Ian White iwhite63@hotmail. com

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
07:57:44
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Hey everybody RJ is back! (Don't look so disappointed) I've been on vacation for a week and just trying to get caught up on all the posts and march news (or lack there of) Who ever posted the links to the monkey pics that was pretty clever. What are you trying to do steal some of the limelight from me? So what's up with the low turnout? Everybody was expecting such a big thing with national press coverage but I stayed glued to all the news channels that day and the next but I never saw a darn thing! What's up with that? SOAPBOX aka CLAUDIA what's the deal with saying numbers aren't a big thing to you guys? All I see when you first enter this site is 23,720. Then there are all the posts with numbers. How many TV stations did a piece on SL. How many newspapers did an article on SL. You always mention the numbers when it comes to crap like that! So numbers are important to you! You can bet your rose colored glasses if there were 1,000 or 5,000 at the march it would be broadcast with post after post of the good news! But with such a poor turnout all the sudden numbers don't matter only that God was looking. Hah!!!!!!! Who do you think you are kidding? You are a hypocrite just like you say we are! Lets see 100 or so out of 5,000 that Billy boy has said have called him (the Popes right hand man) reporting abuse. That's not a very good turnout in comparison with the throngs of the so called abused. What's your explanation for this? Did the elder mafia order hits on everyone that went to the march? Or maybe it was some other crazy crapload of propaganda laden excuses similar to this? I want to help anyone hurt and abused also whether you believe it or not but I will do so within the congregation. This is the wrong way. You guys have a terrible chip on your shoulder that is about to get knocked off. Can't you see that the way you are going about it is futile? RJ

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
08:23:33
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To Not Alone: Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry about what happened to you and your son. The most important vital aspect of silentlambs, to me, is that the ones who have been harmed now know they are not alone or crazy or spiritually weak and that you do not have to be silent any more. ****Have you told your story to the neighbors? Or maybe you could print a few of these stories for them to read. ***** Please know that you can call Bill Bowen or email him if you need to talk or need help. You can also write your story in the Abused Lambs section of this web site. *****

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
09:50:45
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I was in a congregation in So. California for 16 years. During that time, a friend of mine's husband was found to be a child molester. He was disfellowshipped several times, but always reinstated. Now, at the time, we, of course, did not know why he was disfellowshipped. And my kids played at their house all the time, even spending the night. Years later, when I found out why he kept getting disfellowshipped, I was appalled. Every child in the congregation who had contact with this guy was at risk. I was deeply disturbed and disappointed that protecting the image of the society was more important than protecting its members.

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
10:05:43
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There is an article in today's Dallas Morning News regarding child abuse within the Highland Park Presbyterian Church. For those of you who do not know this church is in an extremely wealthy area of Dallas. Contrast this church's response to abuse allegations to Watchtower's response (or lack of one). Although the abuser is now dead, the CHURCH ITSELF mounted an investigation that revealed DOUBLE the number of victims. . . . . . Some excerpts: "This evidence was more than compelling; it was overwhelming," the report said. "At the close of the investigation, with the puzzle pieces in place, the . . . [committee] is left with an inescapable conclusion about which there can be no doubt," that Mr. Pruitt molested 22 females, including three adults, a total of "at least 48 times. " Their median age was 12 to 13. Two girls were not believed when they told other missionaries that they had been molested by the kindly man who entertained children with magic tricks and humor. For many, if not all, of his victims, his abuse left lifelong injury," the report said. The document also said Mr. Pruitt's wife, Virginia, "played an active role in concealing the truth about her husband. " (IN THE VICKI BOER CASE WATCHTOWER ARGUED THAT ELDERS DO NOT OWE VICTIMS A DUTY OF CARE) notice the comment from Presbyterian church Pastor: "We're trying to do whatever we can pastorally for the alleged victims. "Those who feel they were abused need to be cared for. " SHOULDN'T WE EXPECT MORE FROM WATCHTOWER
http://www. dallasnews. com/latestnews/stories/100102dnmetabusereport. 9ab42. html

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
11:23:57
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R. J - you are hopeless and one spiritually ugly guy and you stand out like a sore thumb here. Are you really a JW?????? You sound like a pagan. Don't forget Jehovah watched while these silentlambs were being raped and molested - that is the "news" broadcast up to the heavens, just like your posts look ugly, mean, petty, all the way up to the heavens. You are broadcasting all the way up to the heavens how ugly you are and the lack of love your heart projects. And you are worried about us?????? Don't bother.

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
12:41:37
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If there is one thing I know, you cannot reason with a ridiculer. I am tempted to reason with RJ - but proverbs says it will only bring shame to try and do so. Experience has proven this to be true - I have had lots of experience with ridiculers.

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
12:42:45
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Hooray, the watchtower society is in the limelight for pretending their policy on child abuse works, now what about the mental abuse we suffer for having a different thought to the GB, and being kicked out as apostates! and telling us god hates us, and we'll be destroyed by their killer God, Now that's Abuse! www. antijehovahswitness. com

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
13:36:28
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To all those who were disfellowshipped because they didn't scream when raped, there was an article about rape that PLAINLY STATED that screaming wasn't required. It pointed out that some women (or girls) may be so scared that they can't scream. This isn't a case of someone being knocked unconscious. It's a case of not being able to scream because of fear, etc. Being knocked unconscious is even more reason for not screaming. I'm into it with elders all the time because they don't know what's in their own publications. Even those at H. Q. don't necessarily know what's in their publications. You've got to do your own homework and bring this stuff up -- if they let you. I know of cases where they don't let you defend yourself or want to know what you have to say. I looked but can't find that article but I had a talk with an elder and he was saying that "if she screams" and I told him that's not what the article says. He apparently had it handy and he started reading it aloud and he, too, realized that the article specifically talked about cases where the victim couldn't scream. The biggest trouble is we don't do our own research before seeking the assistance of elders. We're looking to them to know what to do or say and, in a lot of cases, they don't know because they're not familiar with our publications. Oh, they may say that's not true but I've had elders argue with me about information in our very current magazines -- study articles to boot. I don't like being at odds with people, especially the elders or the society, but they contradict their own information practice so much that I've finally come to realize that they don't even know what's in our own publications. Therefore, in specific matters, you better believe that I'm armed with information that comes from our own publications and the scriptures that support their statements. I'm sure there are some who'd love to knock me out of the congregation or organization. I'm a thorn in their flesh, so to speak. However, NO ONE EVER TAUGHT ME THE BIBLE and ALL THE GOOD THINGS OF THE BIBLE but Jehovah's Witnesses. I know this is the right organization. The problem is some are trying to make it their own exclusive paradise regardless of whom they harm. There was a child abuse case in Georgia a couple of years ago and the society successfully argued in court that they're not responsible because the abuser was not in an appointed position. I strongly disagree and I've said so. Now they want everyone to agree that they're doing the right thing in this child abuse sham. I've made it clear that I do not agree with what they're doing. I'm not disfellowshipped but I'm sure they like to think I'm the one that's not in the right, or crazy, or spiritually weak, or whatever. No matter how hurt one is, they MUST do their own research to find FROM THEIR OWN PUBLICATIONS the information you need because the odds are (and it is a "toss up" when it comes to what elders you have to deal with) that the elders don't know this information and they didn't do any relevant research, either. They apply a scripture or scriptures as the letter of the law and ignore important information in our publications that SHOULD help them exercise the scriptures in the SPIRIT of the law. My opinion is that there are a bunch of lazy ignorants running things -- for whatever reason or excuse. YOU'VE GOT TO KNOW FOR YOURSELF IN EVERYTHING. Even if you're going through a divorce or any secular legal matter, you need to do research because you can't even trust an attorney to do proper research and give you all the assistance that is available to you. I am surviving as a Jehovah's Witness because I know for myself what the Bible and publications say and I don't make it a secret. I'm not obnoxious but no one can pull anything over on me because when one is right, they're right -- especially when you've got the proof there for anyone to see in black and white in their own publications. This organization will not die but someone isn't running it right and it's important to find out who the apostate(s) is and get rid of them. If what they're doing isn't scriptural, then someone is abusing this organization. The result is that the sheep are being abused -- in more ways than one. --Anonymous Until It's Time

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
14:23:44
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To all the new posters here. . . . Welcome. I am Linda Thoman. We are here to help anyone who wants or needs someone to talk to. If there is anything either Jesika or I can do to be of help, please let us know. If you want/need contacts local to you to talk to, let me know. If you would like to be a part of a group who've been through it too, let me know. Don't hesitate to email me or Jesika, my niece. Linthoman@hotmail. com

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
14:23:55
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To all the new posters here. . . . Welcome. I am Linda Thoman. We are here to help anyone who wants or needs someone to talk to. If there is anything either Jesika or I can do to be of help, please let us know. If you want/need contacts local to you to talk to, let me know. If you would like to be a part of a group who've been through it too, let me know. Don't hesitate to email me or Jesika, my niece. Linthoman@hotmail. com

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
16:14:54
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WOW, So much time devoted to this matter. I wonder if anybody would take some time to go preach the word of GOD. If Someone is abused they should go straight to the authorities if they feel they should, nothing wrong with that. I guess the watchtower doesn't have enough to do, that now they have to be district attorneys too, how silly u all are. . . . . . just handle things as u must. People inside the congregation have settled various things using the judicial system, nothing wrong with that, u all just wasting your time.

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
16:28:19
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Your march on 9/27 was a farce. See if it will help you or anything else---it won't!See if it will hurt the JW's---it won't. The are steps ahead of you and a whole lot smarter. I heard you left a lot of litter there at Brooklyn. You relish in the attention of the Media and that IS what's important to you. I was wondering if you were ever going to be disfellowshipped and now finally you are! Jehovah is just! That's what happens to people who cause divisions in the Congregation. The bible tells us that and you, an ex-witness and an ex-elder. ought to know that. Another thing about df'ing. What the AP reported what Anderson said about the Witnesses is a downright lie. He is a liar and if he lied once he will lie again and has lied before. Here is his quote about the JW's. "They will not speak to you," Joe Anderson said. "I mean, if you are lying on the road, they will drive right past you. " He is right about not speaking to him. The bible tells the JW's NOT to speak to those who have caused divisions in the Congregation. The Bible tells us NOT to associate with those who do this and those that are out of the Congregation. But as far as the rest of what he said is like I said before. A downright lie. You and other apostates ignore the Bible and you depend on yourself Bowen to reach your conclusions and so do most of the most one's without many smarts who post and read on here. *bonnielyn 'Father' is not a name. It is a title. So to be sure, God has a name. *bjc. . . you posted a great report. Thanks. DC

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
16:38:02
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http://safetypub. com/meagan. htm *** Megan'sLaw in All 50 States *** On May 17, 1996, the President signed Megan's Law into federal law. As a result, local law enforcement agencies in all 50 states must notify schools, day care centers, and parents about the presence of dangerous offenders in their area. *** By forming partnerships with legislators, law enforcement, the private sector, organizations and concerned citizens, the world that we leave to the children will be safer and more secure than the world we live in today. *** The best source of information on the registered sex offenders in your community is quite often your local sheriff's office or police department. If a state's website does not represent your community, you should check with local law enforcement. *** The number of sex offenders by state as of 10/99: 324,924 *** Alabama -- 2,063 Alaska -- 1,986 Arizona -- 9,800 Arkansas -- 1,688 California -- 82,597 Colorado -- 6,600 Connecticut -- 1,222 Delaware -- 855 Florida -- 13,000 Georgia -- 2,800 Hawaii -- 1,100 Idaho -- 1,550 Illinois -- 11,500 Indiana -- 10,500 Iowa -- 3,000 Kansas -- 1,200 Kentucky -- 1,100 Louisiana -- 4,000 Maine -- 269 Maryland -- 591 Massachusetts -- 8,000 Michigan -- 24,000 Minnesota -- 9,000+ Mississippi -- 1,496 Missouri -- 5,500 Montana -- 2,100 Nebraska -- 800 Nevada -- 5,000 New Hampshire -- 1,784 New Jersey -- 6,000 New Mexico -- 700 New York -- 9,091 North Carolina -- 3,650 North Dakota -- 781 Ohio -- 2,720 Oklahoma -- 3,000 Oregon -- 9,0002 Pennsylvania -- 3,021 Rhode Island -- 250 South Carolina -- 3,370 South Dakota -- 1,000 Tennessee -- 4,000 Texas -- 22,499 Utah -- 4,400 Vermont -- 1,218 Virginia -- 7,480 Washington -- 15,289 West Virginia -- 807 Wisconsin -- 11,000 Wyoming -- 630 *** Sex Offender Registration & Community Notification Internet Access 12/07/99. The best source of information on the registered sex offenders in your community is quite often your local sheriff's office police department. If a Website does not represent your community, you should check with local law enforcement. The following is a list of the most recent updated online information regarding registered sex offenders. Alabama: http://www. gsiweb. net/ Alaska: http://www. dps. state. ak. us/Sorcr/ Arizona: http://www. azsexoffender. com/ Note - (This site does not contain information on all convicted sex offenders! Information is only provided for level 2 or level 3 sex offenders released from jail/prison or sentenced to probation on or after June 1,1996. ) Yuma: http://www. ci. tucson. az. us/police/sort1. htm Arkansas: http://www. acic. org/registration/04-registered_sex_offenders. html (Information Only) California: http://www. sexoffenders. net/ (Not an official State Webpage) Also: Child Molester Hotline Number ~ 900-463-0400 ($10 per call).
Connecticut: http://www. state. ct. us/dps/Sor. htm Delaware: tp://www. state. de. us/dsp/sexoff/index. htm Florida: http://www. fdle. state. fl. us Hollywood PD
http://www. hollywoodfl. org/hpd/sexpred/sexpred. htm Osceola County Sheriff http://www. osceolasheriff. org/sexpred/Default. htm Polk County http://polksheriff. org/wanted/ Royal Palm Beach http://legal. firn. ed/muni/rpalmbch/offenders. html Seminole County http://www. seminolesheriff. org/sex_offenders/sex_offender_register. html Tallahassee PD http://www. state. fl. us/citytlh/tpd/cid/predator. html Georgia: http://www. ganet. org/gbi/sorsch. cgi Atlanta PD
http://atlantapd. org/arrests/arrest. html Columbia County http://www. columbiacountyso. org/offenders. htm DeKalb County http://www. dekalbsheriff. org/regnames3. html Floyd County http://www. romegeorgia. com/Sheriff/sexoffenders. htmlWhitfield County http://www. wcso. com/so_index_page_two. html Idaho: Ada County: http://www. adasheriff. org/sexoffenders. htm Illinois: Cook County, IL: http://www. ccspd. org/sexreg. htm Chicago, IL: http://12. 17. 79. 4/ DuPage County, IL http://www. dupageco. org/sheriff/ Kane County, IL http://www. co. kane. il. us/sao/sexoff/sofind. html Kankakee County IL http://www. keynet. net/%7Epatrol/sexoffender. html Lake County IL: http://www. co. lake. il. us/sheriff/sexoffnd/index. htm McLean County, IL http://www. mclean. gov/sheriff/list. htm St. Clair County, IL: http://www. sheriff. co. st-clair. il. us/sexofd. htm Indiana: http://www. ai. org/cji/html/sexoffender. html Kansas: http://www. ink. org/public/kbi/search. html
Labette County http://www. geocities. com/Heartland/Plains/3524/sex. html Sedgwick County http://www. sedgwick. ks. us/sheriff/index. html Michigan: http://www. mipsor. state. mi. us
Macomb County: http://www. jaye. org/MACPSOR. html Muskegon County: http://www. mlive. com/news/crimes/faces. html Minnesota: St. Paul PD http://www. stpaul. gov/police/sexoff. html New Mexico: http://www. nmsexoffender. com
New York: http://www. parentsformeganslaw. com/ North Carolina: http://sbi. jus. state. nc. us/sor/ Ohio: Greene County: http://www. co. greene. oh. us/sxoffendr. htm Stark County: http://www. sheriff. co. stark. oh. us/pr01. htm University of Akron: http://www. uakron. edu/police/sexoff. htm Oklahoma: Blaine County: http://www. pldi. net/~blaineso/blaine_county_sexual_predator_pa. htm Enid PD: http://www. enid. org/police/registered. htm Oregon:
Benton County: http://www. co. benton. or. us/sheriff/corrections/bccc/sonote/
Yamhill County: http://www. co. yamhill. or. us/correct/ The Sex Offender Network and Oregon's Special Sex Offender Strategies South Carolina: http://www. scattorneygeneral. com/public/registry. html Tennessee: http://www. ticic. state. tn. us/
Texas: http://records. txdps. state. tx. us/dps/default. cfm Balch Springs PD: http://www. bspd. com/public/sexoff. html Collins County: http://www. co. collin. tx. us/sheriff/sxoffen. htm Duncanville PD: http://www. ci. duncanville. tx. us/framespage. htm Garland PD: http://www. ci. garland. tx. us/police/gpdsex. htm Farmers Branch PD: http://www. ci. farmers-branch. tx. us/police/sexoffend/index. htm Virginia: http://sex-offender. vsp. state. va. us/cool-ICE/ Washington: Cowlitz County: http://www. co. cowlitz. wa. us/
Island County: http://www. islandcounty. net/sheriff/sex-map. htm King County: http://www. metrokc. gov/sheriff/sxoffsch. htm Okanogan County: http://okanogancounty. org/Sheriff/soffend. htm Wahkiakum County: http://www. geocities. com/CapitolHill/Lobby/7649/ Renton: http://www. ci. renton. wa. us/police/sexlevl3. htm TriCities: http://www. tri-cityherald. com/sexoffenders/ West Virginia: http://www. wvstatepolice. com Wisconsin:
Madison PD http://offender. doc. state. wi. us/public/ Toll Free Registry Hotline, in English and Spanish 1-800-398-2403 Another good online source of information is:
http://www. wolfenet. com/
~dhillis/sexoffen. htm
Wyoming: http://www. state. wy. us/~ag/dci/so/so_registration. html Converse County http://www. state. wy. us/~ag/dci/so/counties/so_converse. html Fremont County http://www. state. wy. us/~ag/dci/so/counties/so_fremont. html Laramie County http://www. state. wy. us/~ag/dci/so/counties/so_laramie. html Natrona County http://www. state. wy. us/~ag/dci/so/counties/so_natrona. html

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
16:42:31
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I don't get it, did anybody bother to see what the watchtower encourages people to do? obviously not, perhaps u should read watchtower january 1st 1995 page 11. simple explanation: 2 sides to each problem, in the congregation, and outside the congregation. Outside the congregation someone is free to make an accusation against someone if its a brother and take them to court if they see fit, the proper authorities investigate that. now inside the congregation: (now come on guys we all know how this works) just cause u make an accusation that is not enough to punish someone, do you have proof? do u have witnesses? if the person does not confess there are no grounds to punish him, only based on your word, including child abuse. Very simple huh? now are the elders going to tell the whole hall about it? or the authorities? OF course not, innocent un till proven guilty. now do u still want to report that person to the authorities? YES? well its your right, go on have a ball. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Remote User:

Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
16:47:02
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***********THE MOLE*********Info update. I thought I would return one MORE time just to let you know that the couple who questioned the elders in our hall was removed as apostates. I did get another letter from Brother Franz and he stated that he is saddened over the crisis that he heard only rumors of long ago from some large cities but not the magnitude of what was being addressed on TV. Much of his knowledge are those who were wrongfully accused for questioning the society's reasoning. I on the other hand seen things as I have reported before that was just horrible and swept under the rug. After the Connie Chung report it is clearly evident that the brothers now want to sweep this under the rug also. Basically the subject is being ignored in our hall and anyone who speaks of it is ignored and spoken of as being spiritually weak. The grind stone has crushed and bullied many to remain silent so the matter will just blow away and forgotten. It saddens me that I have no power to control or will it to help those in need. All I can do is advised those current members to be weary and keep an eye open. I meet with several now in our homes to have study and question the things the brothers want us to feel they the have power over us. Reading is power, I shall break the chains of my past and become free. . . . . . . . . *********THE MOLE*********

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Date:
01 Oct 2002
Time:
16:54:11
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http://www. paloaltodailynews. com/projs/megan/ *** WHY MEGAN'S LAW DOESN'T WORK *** Law to Protect Children Often Frustrates Parents *** Dec. 19, 2000 © 2000 Palo Alto Daily News *** BY ELAINE GOODMAN AND EMILY RICHMOND DAILY NEWS STAFF WRITERS *** When Redwood City resident Hamilton Woods heard that a sex offender had moved into his Friendly Acres neighborhood, the father of four decided to find out more about his new neighbor. *** Woods knew the sheriff's department had a statewide listing of sex offenders known as the Megan's Law database. *** But knowing about the list was easier than getting to it. *** To see the list, Woods had to drive to downtown Redwood City during working hours, sign a form saying he was not a sex offender, and wait behind a security window as a sheriff's department employee ran a criminal background check on him and photocopied his driver's license. *** When that was over, Woods was taken to a special booth and given 15 minutes to wade through dozens of names and photos of sex offenders living within his zip code, and attempt to identify his new neighbor from the mug shots. *** To make matters worse, he wasn't allowed to take notes. *** Overwhelmed, Woods gave up on his search. *** "It's useless information unless you have a good memory and hours and hours to sit there," Woods said. *** Megan's Law was intended to give the public better access to information about sex offenders in their midst. But four years after it was passed by the California Legislature, residents don't know the database exists, don't bother to use it or, like Woods, find the system cumbersome and ineffective. *** Even supporters of the system -- including the state attorney general's office -- admit that too few people use the database. *** While state records show 29,000 people viewed the database last year, and an estimated 100,000 have seen it since its inception, that's still only a minute fraction of the state's 34 million residents, according to Mike Van Winkle of the attorney general's office. *** "We acknowledge more people out there could use it," Van Winkle told the Daily News. *** The San Mateo County Sheriff's Office in Redwood City had 213 people show up last year to view the database, or fewer than one each working day. *** Officials in Palo Alto and San Mateo, two cities that allow the public to view the database at the police station, say only a few visitors stop in to view the registry each month. *** Those who have been following the evolution of the database say it isn't doing what it was intended to do. *** "What wasn't taken into consideration was the abject laziness of the population," said Marc Klaas, father of 12-year-old murder victim Polly Klaas and a child safety advocate. "People don't want to go all the way down to the police station to query the CD-ROM. " *** Megan's Law has also been blasted by criminal rights advocates, who say the public database marks offenders with a lifetime "scarlet letter. " *** "I have a lot of sympathy for the people being hounded for the rest of their lives," said Stephen Elrick, a senior trial lawyer with the Santa Clara County Alternate Defender Office. Elrick is representing Franklin Means, a former Burlingame building inspector accused of child molestation. *** "Let's face it, if (police) have got an unsolved sex case, whose cage do you think they're going to start rattling?" Elrick said. *** Meanwhile, the number of registered sex offenders in California has climbed to 87,000, or roughly one in every 180 adult men. *** And just two months ago, an 8-year-old East Palo Alto girl on her way to a Halloween party was snatched off the street by a stranger on a bike who raped and then abandoned her, according to police reports. *** What is Megan's Law? *** Megan's Law is named after Megan Kanka, a 7-year-old New Jersey girl who was raped and murdered in 1994 by a convicted sex offender who moved in across the street without her family knowing. *** The law, which requires local law enforcement agencies to notify communities about potentially dangerous sex offenders in their midst, was signed into federal law by President Clinton in May 1996. *** Before Megan's Law, California has required sex offenders since 1950 to register with police every time they move to a new community. But although police had records on the whereabouts of sex offenders, the information wasn't available to the public. *** Now, every state in the nation has a version of Megan's Law on the books, with varying requirements. Twenty-three states make a sex offender database available to the public on the Internet. Florida's database on the Internet includes sex offenders' home addresses. *** In California, residents must visit a sheriff's office or police station to view the database. There, they can search for sex offenders by name, zip code or birth date. *** California's database includes photos for most offenders, a list of sex offenses they've been charged with, aliases they use and whether they have scars or tattoos. *** While people convicted of nearly any sex crime must register with police, the public can only view information on offenders considered serious or high-risk. A third category, simply called "other," includes those convicted of lesser sex crimes, such as exhibitionism or incest. *** The sex offender registry can also be searched by calling a 900 number set up by the state. It costs $10 to check two names. *** Note-taking prohibited *** Sheriff's departments in every county are required to make the Megan's Law database available to the public, as are cities with population greater than 200,000. *** Palo Alto and Mountain View have opted to provide public access to the database even though they're not required to do so. *** In San Mateo County, the city of San Mateo lets its residents view the registry. *** But residents of smaller cities -- including East Palo Alto, Menlo Park and Burlingame -- are referred to the sheriff's office in Redwood City if they want to view the database. *** That means a trip to downtown Redwood City during working hours, finding a parking space and then passing through an airport-style metal detector to get into the county government center. *** Prospective database viewers must sign a form saying they're not sex offenders themselves. Then they wait behind a security window while a staff member makes a copy of their driver's license and checks their criminal background. *** Then the viewer is led to a special booth with a sliding plastic door that is set up next to the front desk. A glass window into the booth lets the desk clerk on duty keep an eye on the person using the database, and a digital timer placed in the window counts down the 15-minute session. *** If the viewer takes out a pen and paper and starts taking notes, the desk clerk will tell him or her to stop. Under Megan's Law, members of the public who copy or distribute information from the database can be charged with a misdemeanor and spend up to a year in jail. *** And police or sheriff's departments have the discretion to ban note taking or set a time limit, according to Van Winkle of the attorney general's office. Those who visit the attorney general's office to see the database can take notes, Van Winkle said. *** San Mateo residents can view the sex offender database by appointment at the police station on Delaware Street. It usually takes one day to get in to see the records after making the appointment. *** Andrea Lozano, the police department's information services supervisor, sits next to the resident using the database on a computer terminal inside an office, giving tips on searching the records and making sure nothing is written down. *** Law enforcement officials say the many restrictions placed on using the database are so that viewers comply with its intent -- to allow residents to protect themselves and their families from sexual predators. *** The fear is that wider dissemination of the sex offender information -- such as by posting it on the Internet -- would make it easy for sex offenders to network and share strategies, according to the attorney general's Web site. *** Van Winkle said wider distribution of the information could lead to vigilantism. *** For example, East Palo Alto residents who found out a paroled rapist had moved into their neighborhood successfully drove the man away. Jack Manes, who was nicknamed the "doggie door rapist" because he invaded homes through pet doors, asked police to move him out of East Palo Alto in November 1998 after demonstrations erupted outside his home. *** While some say the prospect of visiting the sheriff's office discourages many would-be viewers, Burlingame Police Chief Gary Missel said the trip wouldn't stop parents who are concerned about the safety of their children. *** "It wouldn't be too inconvenient," Missel said. *** And Missel said the database isn't the only way residents can get information about sex offenders. He said residents are welcome to call their local police department to discuss concerns about someone they think might be a sexual predator. *** Some successes *** Megan's Law has scored some successes. *** In a well-publicized incident after California enacted Megan's Law, parents in San Bernardino spotted a longtime Little League coach on the sex offender registry after rumors began circulating that he had a history of child molestation. A sheriff's investigator then began questioning Little Leaguers and found that Norman Watson had been molesting boys for the past eight years. He was ultimately convicted of 39 counts of lewd acts with children and was sentenced to 84 years in prison. *** Nathan Barankin, spokesman for Attorney General Bill Lockyer, admits there's no way of knowing how many sex offenders are stopped from committing new crimes. *** The best evidence Lockyer has that Megan's Law is doing some good is the response from people who view the database at booths set up at state and county fairs, Barankin said. *** Barankin said viewers often see people they know. *** "They're shocked. It came as a surprise," Barankin said. *** Van Winkle, also of the attorney general's office, estimated that one in every seven or eight people who view the database at the fair recognizes someone they know. *** Safety versus privacy *** The crafters of Megan's Law tried to strike a balance between the public's. right to know about sex offenders in. their midst and the offender's right to privacy. *** Users of the public database sign an agreement that the information is to be used only "to protect themselves and their children from sex offenders. " Officials say the ban on taking notes from the database is a further protection of offenders' privacy. *** But some say the law doesn't do enough to protect the rights of people who have already served their sentence. *** "This registration is like wearing the scarlet letter and it has become an instrument of social ostracism," said John Webster, an unsuccessful Libertarian candidate in last month's election for the state Senate seat that represents San Jose and Sunnyvale. Webster was convicted of child pandering in 1990. "There's no way you can go out and be an accepted member of your community once your name is on this list. " *** Webster, a San Jose resident, told the Daily News he answered a personal ad from the "swingers" classified section of a weekly newspaper and began having lengthy telephone conversations with the woman who placed the ad. *** During the conversations Webster mentioned that he had wished his own parents had been more open with him about sex and that if he ever met the woman he would consider letting her "educate" his own son, Webster said. The "woman" turned out to be a San Jose police officer and Webster was arrested. *** The "offer" of his son was nothing more than a continuation of the telephone fantasy, Webster said. And since his ex-wife has custody of his two children and Webster is only allowed supervised visits, such a meeting with the woman from the personal ad would be impossible, he said. *** Despite this, Webster pleaded no contest to the charge of child pandering in exchange for a promise that he wouldn't have to register as a sex offender. But six years later, when Megan's Law was passed in California, Webster was informed that he would have to register after all. Webster refused and took the case to court. After his former public defender testified that the deal had indeed been struck, Santa Clara County Superior Court Judge John Ball ruled that Webster would be exempt from registering. *** Vigilante fears *** Just as criminals are sentenced to prison for specific amounts of time, Webster said there should be an expiration date to an offender's listing on the Megan's Law database depending on the crime. *** "There has to be some kind of recourse for second chances," Webster said. "Otherwise you're essentially destroying people's lives, and I don't see what that has to do with protecting kids. " *** It's an argument that's been the rallying point of the American Civil Liberties Union's opposition to Megan's Law -- the illegality of double jeopardy, or punishing someone twice for the same crime. *** And the ACLU argues the database encourages vigilantism. *** Elizabeth Schroeder, an attorney and director of the ACLU of Southern California, has questioned whether the purpose of the notification laws are to let the public "vent its anger at sex offenders, like a stoning in the Bible. " The ACLU says it's against notification laws because it won't prevent sex offenders from committing new crimes and rehabilitated former offenders have no chance at a fresh start. *** Law enforcement officials argue that sex offenders are extremely likely to commit the same offenses again, and so extra safeguards are needed. *** "They have a real poor record of rehabilitation," said Burlingame Police Chief Gary Missel. *** But Missel acknowledged the public database would be "one heck of a hindrance" for an offender who is truly trying to reform. *** Dr. Douglas Tucker, a forensic psychiatrist who evaluates sex offenders for the state prison system to see if they're fit for release, said Megan's Law is "useless. " *** When people find out there's a sex offender in the neighborhood, the usual response is suspicion and prejudice, Tucker said. *** "That just makes it more difficult for the offender to develop healthy relationships and forces them to remain in a deviant lifestyle," said Tucker, also an assistant professor at the University of California, San Francisco. *** When people check the list and don't find any offenders in their neighborhood they get a false sense of security, Tucker said. *** "There's a far greater number of sex offenders who are out there than just the names on the database," Tucker said. "Some people are never caught, and they're out there just the same. " *** List unknown to many *** A major factor working against the Megan's Law database is that many people don't know it exists. *** A Peninsula father whose son was molested by Robert Hunter Wilson of Menlo Park told the Daily News he didn't know about the public database before his son was attacked. *** "Megan's Law could be a valuable resource, but I don't think enough people know about it," the father said. "I certainly regret not going and checking it out when Wilson first came into our lives. " *** Wilson, an attorney who has resigned from the state bar, was fired from his job as a prosecutor in Sacramento County after he molested two boys in 1979. He spent a year in a locked mental ward -- then the standard punishment for child molesters. *** In 1991, he was prosecuted by San Mateo County District Attorney Jim Fox for failing to register as a sex offender. Fox discovered the lapse when Wilson was defending several men charged with importing children for sex. While Wilson was acquitted of the charge, Fox called it "ludicrous" that Wilson wouldn't have known he was required to register. *** Mike Piha, president of the Palo Alto Little League and Palo Alto Knights junior football program, said he didn't know the Megan's Law database was available at the police station. Most of the people who volunteer with the two sports leagues are parents of players, Piha said. The other volunteers must provide three references which are checked, Piha said. *** When a parent suggested last year that more thorough background checks be performed, other parents balked, Piha said. *** "Some people saw it as an invasion of privacy," Piha told the Daily News. *** Weaknesses in Law *** Another hole in the Megan's Law system is that only those who have been convicted of a serious sex crime are listed. Many molestation cases involve perpetrators with no sex crimes on their criminal records. *** Richard Allen Davis, the convicted killer of Polly Klaas, had no prior convictions for sex offenses and wouldn't have been on the public database had it been available when the girl was kidnapped from her Petaluma home in 1993, according to her father. *** Marc Klaas said that although Davis had been charged with a previous sex crime, the charge was dropped as part of a plea bargain. *** But listing people suspected of committing sex crimes on the database -- rather than only convicted offenders -- would face staunch opposition from civil libertarians. *** Davis was also a drifter, and may have been hard to find on the database if someone checked by zip code, which is the only location given for offenders. Sex offenders are required to reregister with police when they move, but some may not comply. *** It's not uncommon for sex offenders to move frequently -- in part to avoid harassment, said Santa Clara County Sheriff's Sgt. Bob Schiller of the county's Megan's Law enforcement division. There are also sex offenders who are transients and must reregister every 90 days, Schiller said. *** The database is updated monthly and therefore doesn't show changes of address that have occurred more recently. *** "The database may say John Smith lives at 123 Main St. , but it turns out John Smith moved out a month ago and we have no idea where he is," Schiller said. *** Palo Alto police Detective Jean Bready said she knows several sex offenders who register in Palo Alto during the summer and spring months but go to Sunnyvale in the winter when the National Guard Armory shelter opens. *** What about the Internet? *** As an increasing number of states post their sex offender databases on the Internet, a debate is brewing over whether California should do the same. *** Officials are leery of going online with the database, fearing the law will then get knocked down in court by privacy advocates. So far, California's version of Megan's Law has withstood court challenges. *** And the attorney general's office claims that an Internet listing would make it too easy for sex offenders to network with one another. *** James Sibley, a prosecutor with the Santa Clara County District Attorney's Sexual Assault Unit, said sex offenders do seek each other out. *** "There's no question pedophiles are using the Internet to find each other and share ideas," Sibley said. "For them, it normalizes their behavior when they can find someone else who's doing the same things. " *** Pedophiles will use chat rooms and Web sites to direct each other to park locations, give names of social service agencies looking for "big brothers" and even direct each other to the nearest video arcades and shopping malls, Sibley said. *** But State Sen. Jackie Speier, who was one of the co-authors of Megan's Law when she was in the state Assembly in 1996, said the pluses of moving the database to the Internet outweigh the minuses. *** "Information should be made available to the public with the least effort required," Speier said. "Otherwise it's not truly public disclosure. " *** Some police departments are posting maps on their Web sites that show the general location where sex offenders are residing. Palo Alto posts such a map, as does Pleasanton. *** Palo Alto shows where sex offenders live by marking the map with house symbols. Most of the sites are in south Palo Alto, with. the exception of a residential hotel and a low-income apartment complex in the downtown area. *** Attorney General Lockyer hasn't taken a position on posting the sex offender registry on the Internet. "What the Attorney General supports is making this information much more accessible to the public," said Barankin, Lockyer's spokesman. *** But Hamilton Woods, the Redwood City resident who couldn't find out if he had a neighbor who is a sex criminal, has no doubt that access to the Megan's Law database needs to be expanded. *** "There's only one computer in the whole city," Woods said. "That's not really giving people access to the information. "

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Please go to http://www. google. com and type in Meagan's Law for the search. A lot of information comes up here.

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AP: BILL BOWEN LAUNCHES NEW WEB SITE! Bill Bowen, administrator of the silentlambs. org web site devoted to JW abuse issues has just launched a new web site for JW's and EX-JW's - you can find it at www. silentmasterbaters. org. Bill Bowen said today: "lambs, there is no need to struggle with your masturbation problem alone! Now you can talk to other masturbators on the all-new guest book". In related news, Bill Bowen also revealed today that he is gay. [APNEWS] Masturbation? Bills gay? Dammit, who let the 8th graders in again! Geez, you guys are sooooo cool, you really got us this time! I guess being gay and/or masturbating really is worse than raping babies! Wow. Hooray for people like you. If your over 15, I really, really feel bad for you. Did you get your ass kicked on a regular basis in high school? Does your daddy not love you? WAYYYYYY to much time on your hands. Shouldn't you be out in service or something? Go volunteer at a suicide hotline or a rape crisis center, perhaps a domestic violence house. Oh, wait, I forgot, witnesses just do enough by handing out literature. We know who you are, & your quotes here will be reported to the elders! Then you'll really have some time on your hands. (<---- masturbator)

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HaHAHAHAHAHAHA you apostate wankers your march sucked and you only proved you're a bunch of gays and prostitutes. Are you happy? Are you proud now you've started your own cult under the leadership of your grand "masturbator", Bill B. ? Gather 'round to take the milk from flaccid Bill B. ! Gather all the lambs to the great circle-jerk!

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Re: I don't get it, . …. . Okay, I'll explain IT to you. Question: Why should ALL acts of sexual abuse by reported to the authorities? (Regardless of the abuser DENYING the charge, regardless of having only one witness: the VICTIM, regardless of the elders opinion of guilt or innocence) …… Okay follow along; we are going to talk about Federal Rules of Evidence admitted in criminal prosecution. Evidence of Other Acts of Sexual Assault or Molestation by Perpetrator IS Admissible for any Relevant Purpose under New Federal Rules. Evidence of other sexual offenses may be admitted regardless of whether the charge or accusation led to a conviction. (Rules 413, 414 and 415 of the Federal Rules of Evidence) WHY is this law important? ) In support of the new rules, advocates argued that a history of similar acts in child molestation cases, for example, tends to be probative because it demonstrates an unusual disposition that does not exist in ordinary people. In addition, the difficulties proving cases of child sexual abuse were cited to Congress . . . . . . . So do you get it now? Child abusers molest again and again and again in the congregation or in the neighborhood. If the first victim does NOT report the crime then the molester may not be convicted if charged with a second offense. Very simple you say? Yes, very simple to apply Watchtowers rules if you are protecting Pedophiles rather than Children.

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To HaHAHAHAHAHAHAHA -- I'm not agreeing anyone here is a prostitute. You demonstrate a total lack of compassion and understanding for humans -- their mental and emotional needs. Being a victim doesn't make one stupid or immoral and certainly doesn't warrant their being called derogatory names! -- What would you call Rahab, the PROSTITUTE that became an ancestress of Jesus Christ, himself. Apparently, Jehovah God doesn't ridicule prostitutes, so why would you?

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FIRST, the ELDERS have NO BUSINESS knowing anything about anyone IF MATT. 5 OR MATT. 18 hasn't been followed with the right spirit and intentions. If MATT. 5 or 18 has been correctly followed, then one needs to take 2 or 3 witnesses with them to establish the matter. These witnesses, according to the society's own publications, DO NOT HAVE TO BE ELDERS. They should be people FAMILIAR WITH THE PROBLEM. NOW, we have a difficulty. HOW CAN ONE BRING 2 OR 3 WITNESSES FAMILIAR WITH THE PROBLEM if they DON'T KNOW ANYONE that KNOWS ABOUT THE PROBLEM (especially in the matter of CHILD ABUSE)? To me, it means that a parent or parents of another or other abused children should be coming with the one that approached an "offender" and wasn't successful between them alone and confidentially. If elders get involved as witnesses and a person denies the allegations, it is my opinion that EVEN INSIDE THE CONGREGATION, they should make a covert investigation. I don't think investigations should be left up to the secular authorities only. Besides that, since it appears that the elders ALREADY KNOW that one or another is a child molester, they have MOUNTING EVIDENCE that that person is a problem and a danger to the others in the congregation. That cannot be treated as here say or insufficient evidence. Of course, if an elder or elders themselves are responsible for child abuse, you wouldn't expect them to make a big to do about child molestation, would you? Of course not. They'd poo-poo it and minimize it to seem as though it's not as bad as it seems. My bible training taught me to reason situations out. How would you like to be treated as though your mind and heart don't matter? So, to the paralyzed minds that are posting such idiotic ridiculing of the victims, get a brain that lets you reason on matters.

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Hah hah hah Mole is gonna dig himself a hole. Kiddin' Mole. One other reason Bill Bowen is doing this so called service to the world besides grabbing media attention is because----------he LOVES to hug and get all the attention from the girls who supposedly were abused. Yup, he loves those hugs!!

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To the IDIOT that continues to post SLANDEROUS remarks about Bill and who pretends that he is posting AP news articles: I have a question. Do you realize that your IP address is recorded with each post you make? Do you know that your identify is not actually hidden? Slander is a civil offense. Do you think your host provider would be interested that their customer vilifies a Sexual Abuse Victim's Support Website? How do you intend to protest your innocence: Will you explain you slandered the victims because you didn't think they were obedient to the elders? Idiot!!

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CAN ANYONE SHARE WHAT HAPPENED WITH THE "MARCH" ON 9/27? THANK YOU . . . . FRED

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Hi, i have been dealing with a sexual abuse case with the witnesses over the last 14 months and i don't go anymore as a result of nothing being done about the abuser. i was wandering if anyone knows: Is New Zealand one of the NON-REPORTING STATES? I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. THANX SW (N. Z)

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Bill Bowden loves his work. He really loves those hugs and attention from the supposedly abused girls. Hey Bill----why don't you work for the Protestants? They are the top sexual abusers of all. It's a fact. Read about it!

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Hey HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA That's exactly what we say when one of you people present your outdated 1914, this generation will not pass, just around the corner, canned presentations. People are more informed in these times and all the Watchtower failures spring up in our minds when you are mentioned. The Organization is experiencing zero or negative growth in developed countries, because people know better. Better send people where "the need is great"(countries where no one knows your background). Then you may be able to buy another 120 years till they catch up to you too.

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" Millions now living will never die". That was another one of the big Watchtower predictions from 1925. What a joke this religion has turned out to be. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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To the slanderous idiot, any "christian" religion that is not catholicism, is by definition protestant, THE JW'S ARE PROTESTANTS.

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This is so sad. I really feel for the people who have been so devastated by these issues. The Bullies will get their fill of picking on the weaker ones and that shows their character. I know the value of arguing. ATTACK always ATTACK this takes away the others power. So they think. All power belongs to you the individual, all power, "yours and theirs". That is why if you are a victim of these crimes, even right now, and you have anyone, ANYONE, who tells you that you are to be silent or to wait is a fool and has nothing to do with God or the spirit of Christ. You must come forward; If you do not then others will suffer as you suffer. You will find that there are people all around you that will help you, I know that. As more people awaken and understand that ALL that these people have is the perception of power over you. For so long women have been led to believe that they are nothing with out their husbands. Regardless of how piggish he may be. It is a part of the "Big Lie. " Being a husband is a privilege not a birth right. A wife is not an indentured servant or a slave of a man. The so called "secular laws" are in place to protect all of us and thank God they are, because just think of life with the Governing Body as the law of the land. That is scary. There will be so many news reports as people come forward. You the victim have the key. You have the power. You have the choice. I will support you, and so will others. That does not mean to abandon your faith. Your faith is not (or should not) be in a building, or in any man. Your faith is in God though Jesus Christ. That does not = the Governing Body. It just does not! WAIT? At the expense of our children? NO! We must stand together. I want to believe that the things that I do today will make for the better world of a child 100 years from now. Many believe that there will not be 100 years. But there just might be. As there was 100 years. "Pray to God but row to shore. " You would not get very far if you just "waited on Jehovah." How would Tom Hanks faired it he had just waited in Cast Away? He did not and this is no different. If you are called a liar for telling the truth but later say that what you said was not true then what are you? Were you a liar or were you turned into one? I want to be one in Christ but not at the expense of everyone around me. I would rather be labeled"apostate" by a man than to answer why I could have protected children and helped victims but instead I was worried about image on Judgment Day. -Jayson (The talking ape)

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Since the so-called FDS is composed of supposed "spirit-anointed" persons, what is going to happen in the next decade or so when they are all dead? I'm not a JW, but from what I understand, there are only about 8000 or so of these folks still around, so how will the FDS dispense it's so-called "food" once they are all gone. Do you think the borg will just drop the teaching (sort of like the 1914 "generation") and hope the rest of their followers don't notice the doctrinal change? After all, we all KNOW that eventually the rest of the anointed are going to die and Armageddon will not have arrived. As a wise person once said, "Time is always the greatest enemy of a false prophet". Lawrence P. S. Congrats to the courageous marchers. You have definitely exposed the dirty linen of the GB and their mind-numbed "theocratic" followers! I'm enjoying turning the tables on the JWs I meet on the street or at my door.

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Since the so-called FDS is composed of supposed "spirit-anointed" persons, what is going to happen in the next decade or so when they are all dead? I'm not a JW, but from what I understand, there are only about 8000 or so of these folks still around, so how will the FDS dispense it's so-called "food" once they are all gone. Do you think the borg will just drop the teaching (sort of like the 1914 "generation") and hope the rest of their followers don't notice the doctrinal change? After all, we all KNOW that eventually the rest of the anointed are going to die and Armageddon will not have arrived. As a wise person once said, "Time is always the greatest enemy of a false prophet". Lawrence P. S. Congrats to the courageous marchers. You have definitely exposed the dirty linen of the GB and their mind-numbed "theocratic" followers! I'm enjoying turning the tables on the JWs I meet on the street or at my door.

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HaHAHAHAHAHAHA you apostate wankers your march sucked and you only proved you're a bunch of gays and prostitutes. Are you happy? Are you proud now you've started your own cult under the leadership of your grand "masturbator", Bill B. ? Gather 'round to take the milk from flaccid Bill B. ! Gather all the lambs to the great circle-jerk!

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To the person who said "You demonstrate a total lack of compassion and understanding for humans -- their mental and emotional needs. " I am laughing at Bill B. and his limp-dicked followers. Like you, I'm not associated with JW's any more, but I think your attitude sucks. Just move on, GET A LIFE GROW A BRAIN GROW UP. Bill B. is in it for the attention, so he creates his own lil' "cult" following, at least 50% of the people involved have nothing to do with being abused, but found out about this and said "Whoopee!! Now I can jump on the bandwagon and proclaim my irrational hatred for JW's!". John (the "spelling retard") being a case in point. Anyone who rubs shoulders with these kind of venomous snakes who make it their life's work to spread lies and hate do not fit my definition of victims. Nobody who posts here can claim to be "innocent". Any so-called victim who thinks he or she will find love and acceptance amongst Bill B. and his cronies is warped and completely mistaken. The same kind of twisted people that make up lies to accuse elders or say "I was raped at bethel" I'm not in denial, it goes on. But people who tune in to this web site are seeing an overblown, unrealistic picture. The apostates LOVE it. YEAH! Negative propaganda against the witnesses! Satan laughs with delight. HaHAHAHAHAHA

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The person that signs HAHAHAHA is a probably a JW elder loser who leads a double life(surprise,surprise)Not that uncommon.

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Hey Jayson the talking ape. Your little speech was so compelling. Wow! What graceful, articulate and well arranged words. It should go down in annals of history as one of the greatest stories ever told. You and Martin Luther King Jr must have the same blood line or something. And to the one who is trying to scare the AP poster with all that crap about IP addresses. There is nothing illegal about obvious parodies. You need to take a look at the law or get you a better legal encyclopedia. That is no more slander than what this site says and claims about JW's and their teachings. Take a look back through some of the posts and you will see all the kind comments about JW's. Is that slander or is it matter of opinion? That is the difference you big nameless jerk (oh did I slander you? Sorry) So AP poster you just keep on posting if you want. There is nothing that can legally be done by a cowardly nameless poster or this site unless they want a lawsuit themselves. We have as much right to express opinion as anyone else. The problem is that it scares some in here who would like to keep the party to themselves so they can wallow in each others mire rather than look at other points of view. Your threats are no different than the so called threats and intimidation you say JW's dish out to dissenters. Hypocrite! Again I ask all objective observers, Who's better than who? RJ

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To the legal expert that keeps posting here, there is NOT any slander at this web site. Slander is when one or others talk to people other than the person they're talking about and they say or repeat derogatory talk about the non-present person or persons. Slander is face-to-face VERBAL abuse. It is LIBEL when you vilify or publish derogatory talk about another or others. That's when the bad talk is put in writing. You need to check your legal encyclopedia. By the way, there is software that can record each visitors address and capture their E-mail address if it's not already a capability within the system one is using. There is so much ignorance posted here about everything and everyone, including the Watchtower organization. Yet, such ones talk as though they're authorities on the subject. Also HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, what's wrong with wanting hugs and kisses? Affection is a natural demonstration of liking, respect and appreciation. Regular people like expressing and receiving it. What is the matter -- didn't anyone ever hug and kiss you without sexual overtones?!?!?! Poor baby in an adult's body.

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02 Oct 2002
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March pictures can be view here
> http://www. jehovahs-witness. com/forum/thread. aspx?id=37652&site=3

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02 Oct 2002
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02 Oct 2002
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What you say on your website is so true. I used to be a JW years ago, my aunt , uncle, cousin and his wife recently have left. I am so glad for them. This is more of a cult than religion. They have to much control on peoples life. I am so glad to be out of it. Your website is fantastic and you hit the nail on the head. I heard there was a protest march in front of the watchtower headquarters but it was not televised, Why wasn't it? If you know please advise. Thanks. ginny@pivot. net

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02 Oct 2002
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NEW ZEALAND CHILD ABUSE LINKS: http://www. geocities. com/peterzohrab/ischlabu. html and http://library. canterbury. ac. nz/web/ref/justicestat. shtml -- FOR MORE INFORMATION GO TO http://www. google. com and type child abuse in New Zealand in the "Search" rectangle and then press "Enter". I didn't notice anything about reporting. Perhaps you will find information that is helpful to you through these links.

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CHRIST CHURCH, NEW ZEALAND, RITUAL ABUSE CASES -- http://www. religioustolerance. org/ra_newze. htm

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02 Oct 2002
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GENES, CHILD ABUSE AND VIOLENCE IN NEW ZEALAND AND AUSTRALIA -- http://www. abc. net. au/health/minutes/stories/s641516. htm

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Hi I hear the March on the WT headquarters was successful. Congratulations to the organizers and those that attended. I am sure you had lots of fun. I am sorry for not being with you. Mr. Lawrence Hughes is looking for those that are hurting because of Jeh. Witnesses. He is organizing a GLOBAL CLASS ACTION LAWSUIT against the Governing Body of the WT in Brooklyn New York. All interested parties call him for information so you can register for compensation. Here is his email. LawrenceH@cpgroup. com Even those qualify that were never members of this Cult but were somehow connected so there was emotional or other damage done to them. Let's have more FUN with the Watchtower "god's gift to mankind". rmk. RMK

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02 Oct 2002
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to ginny@pivot. net There was no televised footage of the march because nobody gave a hoot. The JW organization works hard to help those in need and the world in general knows that and view JW's as no more a serious threat than the mennonites, catholics, protestants or any other religious group. They had more important news to broadcast other than 100 people or so spouting out hot air. Thus no one really gave a hoot.

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Jayson, Thank you for the profound wisdom. I especially liked the "Pray to God but row to shore". We can not sit back and do nothing and expect God to bless us for the "nothing" I have recently been silenced by the congregation. My DA announcement was on Tuesday Sept 24. But even those of us who have been cut off from communication with the former "friends" can have a voice. And like you I would rather be branded an apostate by man than be found wanting by God. Jah's opinion of me is what counts. **** Mole, My family has begun having a serious Bible search lately too. We are not using the prescribed study formula of the WTS. We are digging into various subjects using every source we can until we come to an understanding. Amazing what we find. *** I have been out of touch lately. Sorry if I caused anyone concern. I still visit this site and enjoy reading everyone's thoughts. (even the sad rantings of the seriously disturbed)(they deserve our kindness since their minds have been twisted and distorted by years of mental abuse by the WTS) *** I still love Ya'll, Loris

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02 Oct 2002
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RMK give me a break! A global class action lawsuit against the GB what a laugh! Why don't you just get on with your life? If this Mr hughes has nothing better to do than organize a global class action lawsuit against the GB then he too needs to get a life. It will never get the momentum to even get on the docket. I'm sorry for anyone that has ever gotten hurt but is brooding over it for the rest of your lives going to give you peace and closure? You have already removed yourself from the JW organization why don't you just move on now? That's what I am doing and it has worked for me. I don't even want to go through all the bad memories again. Sorry if I sound harsh but I just think it's futile. Leave it in God's hands just as you leave your salvation in his hands by the choices you make.

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It seems the protest was quite a success. The most direct evidence here is the vitriol it elicited from the JW defenders. Not one word assailing the value of the issues. What I read is a boat load of unreasoned, childish name calling and attacks on the messenger. Excellent job! One point I have been considering: I think the JW defenders are laying bare one of their most significant weaknesses, namely their lack of education. It is weak minded to address an issue by name calling and attacking the messenger. But they do it because it is an approach that they hear constantly in their five-times-weekly indoctrination sessions. I firmly believe they are sincere. If they would learn to think for themselves, they would be willing to work through the issues. Again, nice job folks. - Buster

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Mary had a little lamb, its pee was yellow in the snow. A circuit overseer saw how "unclean" the snow was, and asked an elder to oversee its removal. The elder, being lazy as elders are, used a commanding, authoritative voice when commanding the ministerial servant to clean it up. The bashful, humble, sick MS had someone he molested clean it up. See how piss and shit work flow downhill??

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02 Oct 2002
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And Buster does the above Mary had little lamb story comes show that the SL supporters are more educated? Man that was about as childish as anything I've seen posted on here. Even the AP poster who is undoubtedly ignorant cannot be compared to that little bit of literary genius. That just shows that ignorance comes in all forms of life. Don't go bad mouthing some of the JW's who have come in here for being uneducated in your opinion when it clear that some of the SL supporters are just as ignorant if not more so. Case in point above!

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The Jehovah Religion has disrupted my family. My sister is active in the jehovah religion and my family is very upset with this. You cannot talk to her about religion or god as she believes that we are all wrong and that jehovah is right. This is very sad for our family as we are loosing her as a family member. mayngo@aol. com

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02 Oct 2002
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Sorry to say I will not be posting here until there is a way of registering with ID# and password if I wanted to be further abused by WT pedophiles I would go to the KH and use the rest room RJ you are a pile of steaming pucky, I will be on Jehovahs-witnesses . com were there is a little more structure to the site, I have not noticed this sort of abuse going on there, sorry I will be back when there are sanctions of some sort removing these abusive pedophiles from the WT from entering the site. . . NP

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NP *** DITTO *** There has to be more order and less chaos here. The lambs are going to shrink back into silence. ABUSE MUST STOP. Here would be a good place to start

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02 Oct 2002
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To the better legal expert. You are correct. The remarks are SLANDEROUS however, the legal charge is LIBEL. . . . SLANDER - A false defamation (expressed in spoken words, signs, or gestures) which injures the character or reputation of the person defamed; distinguished from libel. The defaming a man in his reputation by speaking or writing words which affect his life, office, or trade, etc. Falsity and malice are ingredients of slander. Written or printed slanders are LIBELS. . Each guestbook users IP address should be captured along with the time of the entry. Also IP addresses can be blocked by the website host or a complain can be made to the guestbook abusers service provider. Most providers do not care about TROLLS on a forum but libel and harassment of victims on a support site could be a different issue. Basically I think the child using the computer should be aware that there can be consequences.

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02 Oct 2002
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And you still have not told me how the words and statements on this site both by Bill Bowen and numerous posters to the guestbook and marches made on the WT with signs is not slander or libel. They are not slanderous or libel they are simply opinions. Facts have to be presented to prove something. That is why a class action lawsuit would fail and that's why the other lawsuits have failed. The problem is that you guys don't like dissenting views. You like to be in your own little paradise and tell your stories to make each other feel better. You can't take the heat that you yourselves began to dish out the moment you started call all JW's pedophiles and calling for the destruction of the WT society. So go over to JW. com because there they only let in your kind. The reason there is "structure" is because the minute someone registers with a dissenting view he is booted after a few posts. This keeps you all in your little paradise without having to listen to us. Then you can bash and poke fun at JW's and doctrine without interference which is how most cowards like it. Yes IP addresses can be logged and yes the administrator of this site could block one. But there will be no lawsuit over freedom of speech. It has been struck down more times than Clinton said "I did not have sexual relations with that woman, miss Lewinsky" What do you think keeps Jay Leno and Letterman in business? It is called freedom of speech! They have made many JW puns and jokes. Yet they are not sued by JW's. It's called freedom of speech! Why do you think all the other JW sites are online? Do they have nice things to say about JW's. No they are full of dissenting views and insinuations, even GB names are used and blasphemed. It's called freedom of speech my friends. The worst thing that can happen is an IP address is blocked and then there are public libraries, cyber cafes, and other computers for rent. You will not be able to stop opposing views so get used to it legal genius! RJ

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02 Oct 2002
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RJ: The slander remarks was not in reference to dissenting opinions but was in regard to the false AP reports and the false website listed as owned by Bill, calling Bill a homosexual and insinuating that he was a child molester. Those type comments are not opinions they are libelous statements. You constantly complain that JW's are not treated fairly on this site, therefore, you surely must agree that this type of conduct should be taboo.

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02 Oct 2002
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What is an FDS?

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02 Oct 2002
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RJ: The trouble is we already know your views are the same as the WTS and that your attitude is one of hatefulness towards anyone who opposes your "view. " WTS keeps people "silent" within the organization and then yells for free speech in public. There is no "free speech" within the organization unless it is agreeable to the WTS. You come here to exercise this free speech that the "society" forbids you at the KH and amongst the "friends. " Would you print all your posts and proudly present them to the District Overseer and know that he would approve of the way you love your enemies?***** You come here to let it all hang out in a way you could never ever speak openly with your congregation. JW's idea of free speech is oppressive and that is exactly what you try to do here. You intimidate and try to oppress free speech of others and then when someone wants to stop you - you yell free speech. Your right to "free speech" has to be done responsibly with the rights of other's free speech not infringed upon. But you don't know the meaning of "free speech" or the responsibility that goes with it. You don't hear, you don't respect that this is our place here - not yours. You have a right to disagree respectfully - but you do it oppressively like you have been taught at the KH. We left because of the oppressive atmosphere - to the extent that they would intimidate and oppress a child who has been raped or molested. The whole show is based on oppressiveness and now you want to come here and intimidate people into more oppressiveness with mockery and ridicule. If they have to shut you out because they can't shut you up - well, deary this is exactly what they do at the KH! Do you GET IT? I know you don't approve of Bill and Silentlambs - but why do you come here? Tell us once and get on with your life, right??? Get over it. You don't see the grave concerns, we accept that you don't. Now accept we are not going to accept your "grave concerns" and you just need to get over it. **************RJ, I don't think any of us hates you - but you do the hypocrite thing and you don't realize what a h